
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
Recognizing Warning Signs
- Disordered eating is often normalized and promoted as "healthy" in our culture
- Changes in eating habits, exercise routines, or interactions with clothing/mirrors
- Defensiveness when approached about behavioral changes
- Eating disorders don't have "one look" - they affect people of all genders, ages, and body sizes
- Parents should trust their gut instincts if something seems off
Parent-Child Communication
- Approach conversations with curiosity and compassion
- Ask open-ended questions: "I've noticed some changes. Could you tell me more about that?"
- Avoid accusatory language or bringing too much worry to the table
- Externalize the eating disorder - view it as separate from your child
- Educational conversations about how diet trends cycle through generations
Diet Culture and Social Media
- Parents are "influencers" too - home environment matters as much as social media
- Engage teens in critical thinking about trends and marketing
- Discuss how diet culture constantly recycles old ideas with new packaging
- Talk about who benefits financially when people feel bad about their bodies
Supporting Recovery
- Getting parents on the same page is crucial, especially in co-parenting situations
- Early stages of eating disorder treatment can feel more painful than the disorder itself
- Recovery can ultimately bring families closer together
- Treatment success often requires consistent approaches across households
What Not to Say
- "Don't worry, you're not going to get fat" (reinforces the eating disorder's fears)
- Categorizing foods as "healthy/unhealthy" or "good/bad"
- Alternative categorizations (like "sometimes food" vs "anytime food") are still problematic
- Call foods by their names: pizza is pizza, broccoli is broccoli
IMPORTANT TIMECODES FROM THE EPISODE:
- 00:00 Introduction to Behind the Bite
- 00:55 Challenges of Parenting in Today's World
- 01:27 Introducing Oona Hanson
- 01:59 Oona's Personal Journey and Professional Insights
- 02:27 Understanding Eating Disorders in Children
- 07:54 Navigating Social Media and Diet Culture
- 24:32 Supporting Your Child Through Recovery
- 28:41 Family Dynamics and Co-Parenting Challenges
- 36:13 Practical Tips for Parents
- 39:26 Conclusion and Resources
HOW TO CONNECT WITH OONA TO LEARN MORE:
- Website: https://www.oonahanson.com/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oona_hanson/?hl=en
- Twitter: https://x.com/oonahanson
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ParentingWithoutDietCulture
- https://oonahanson.substack.com/
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