In this powerful episode, Dr. Cristina Castagnini sits down with Olivia Soha, the founder of Uncovery, to discuss the often-invisible line between "wellness culture" and a life-threatening eating disorder. Olivia shares her harrowing journey from an early childhood struggle with ARFID to a medical crisis in her twenties that resulted in a near-death experience and a spiritual vision that changed her life forever. They explore the dangerous way society praises disordered behaviors as "healthy discipline" and the vital role that recovery coaching plays in bridging the gap between clinical treatment and reclaiming a real, lived life. Whether you are struggling yourself or supporting a loved one, Olivia’s story offers a profound map of resilience and the unwavering hope that full recovery is truly possible.

Olivia Soha is the Founder and Lead Eating Disorder Recovery Coach at Uncovery, an Australia-based service supporting individuals worldwide. With over 8+ years of experience in the eating disorder field, Olivia brings an integrated perspective as both a lived experience practitioner and service leader. Her work is grounded in the ethical integration of lived experience within multidisciplinary care. Olivia leads and mentors a team of recovery coaches, working closely alongside psychologists, dietitians, and medical professionals to ensure support is collaborative, safe, and aligned with clinical treatment. Olivia’s professional background includes international experience at BALANCE Eating Disorder Treatment Center in the United States, alongside formal training with the Carolyn Costin Institute. She has presented at national and international conferences, including the Australia & New Zealand Academy for Eating Disorders Conference and the International Conference for Eating Disorders, and has contributed to sector initiatives with organisations such as the National Eating Disorders Collaboration and the Butterfly Foundation. Drawing from both her professional expertise and personal recovery journey, Olivia offers a grounded, compassionate, and deeply informed perspective on eating disorders, recovery, and the development of the lived experience workforce.

KEY TOPICS DISCUSSED:

  • How early childhood trauma, such as a fear of choking, can evolve into ARFID and later restrictive eating.
  • The danger of "positive reinforcement" for disordered behaviors in a culture obsessed with fitness.
  • How a "starved brain" prevents an individual from seeing the reality of their own physical decline.
  • The specific role of a Recovery Coach as an adjunct to clinical therapy (The "How" and "Now" vs. the "Why").
  • Navigating the intense shame of the binge-eating phase that often occurs during the re-nourishment process.

KEY TAKEAWAYS:

  • The Illusion of Health: Olivia discusses how her perfectionism was initially masked as a "healthy lifestyle," receiving praise for the very behaviors that were killing her.
  • The Spiritual Turning Point: A detailed look at the spiritual experience Olivia had while medically unstable, which provided her with the directive to survive and help others.
  • Shame as "Mold in the Dark": Using Carolyn Costin’s analogy, Olivia explains how bringing "secret" behaviors like binging into the light of conversation allows them to dissipate.
  • The Practicality of Coaching: Why real-world support—like going to a grocery store or a cafe with a coach—is often the missing ingredient in traditional clinical settings.

IMPORTANT TIMECODES FROM THIS EPISODE:

  • [00:00] A near-death experience: Olivia’s vision from a hospital bed.
  • [05:45] The onset of ARFID at age 10 and the trauma that triggered it.
  • [08:50] The "Gap Year" trap: How a lack of purpose led to an obsession with body control.
  • [12:20] Normalizing the abnormal: Why society praises the symptoms of an eating disorder.
  • [17:35] Losing touch with reality: The terrifying medical collapse and hospitalization.
  • [23:05] Rock bottom at home: The difficulty of transitioning from 24/7 support to independence.
  • [25:15] The "Binge-Survival" reaction: Confronting the shame of post-restriction eating.
  • [30:20] Reclaiming movement: Transitioning from obsessive exercise to mindful yoga.
  • [38:40] Building Uncovery: Bringing a new model of recovery support to Australia.
  • [42:50] Coaching vs. Therapy: How different puzzle pieces fit together for full healing.

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**Disclaimer:**

The content of this podcast episode is for informational and educational purposes only and is not intended to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and experiences shared by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host or affiliated organizations. If you have any medical or mental health concerns, please consult a qualified healthcare provider. Listener discretion is advised, especially for those sensitive to topics related to body image, weight stigma, and eating disorders.